When someone offers to get you a glass of water, and you graciously take them up on the offer; how many more times does that person need to keep getting up to get you more?
I mean, the first offer is to just be nice. You might be a guest; therefore, your host wants to make you feel comfortable. The next time, why don’t you ask where the kitchen is; so, you can get your own refill? That way, the host can IF THEY REALLY WANTED TO, get up and get you more water.
And for the love of God and all that is holy, do NOT shyly ask for more water when you know for a fact you are pushing it at this point.
If it is OFFERED, please feel free to take them up on it. Do not assume that if it is done once, they want to keep doing it the whole fucking visit.
And if you want more water, please have your cup ready. You cannot possibly expect your host to start over with a fresh glass each time. What a waste of time and resources.
All in all, it wasn’t that bad. But this will be the FIRST thing I think of if/when the next invitation is received.
Obviously this is not about a glass of water. But that was the best way I could describe the situation since my mom is reading these. Hi MOM!!